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Yup, at least he does wish to come back.
All we have to do now is just to make all those bashers stop.. haha
and i'm sure all of u ppl have read the post made by his.. cousin?
here's the link, cbf copy paste it here.

CLICK ME TO GO TO THE LINK

Here are my thoughts:

In the car I asked my daughter who is the same age as Jaebum “Yuri! What does ‘Korea is gay’ mean?” “It means that Korea is stupid or annoying, we say it when we’re tired or annoyed”.

Even when my daughter and I fought when she went through her teenage years, she used the word ‘hate’ a lot. “Dad i hate you!” Just because she said that would i have to kick her out of the house?

During that time, I believe that Jaebum did not understand the Korean culture, and had a hard time adjusting, while the people who translated what Jaebum said on his Myspace translated in a very wrong way because they don’t know that that is just how teenagers speak in America.

On 12th September, Mr. Kim and JaeBum's family had dinner together and he comforted JaeBum. And this was a photo they took together with JaeBum on the right and Mr Kim's son Kim JeongHoon on the left.

(T_T)

each news i've read abt JaeBum really made me feel concerned about him. I hope he is not stressing about this as much now.
If only i were his friend, i would give him a really really really BIG HUG to him. I don't care if he'll cry or whatever, i just feel like giving him a big hug and pat him on the head, like calming a crying kid.. haha..

Have you guys actually think about this?
All the fans have only been whinning and requesting to let JaeBum come back.. But have you guys think what are the consenquences?

Remember, NETIZENS. Some netizens are obviously an antifans.
These crazy anti fans, won't only bash the artists onthe net but also in real life.
Have you actually thought the possibility of JaeBum being bashed by them?
Even more than 10000 people forgive him, the 5000 people who won't forgive him might consists of these crazy antifans.

If JaeBum comes back, i know we all will be happy.. but i am asure he won't feel safe and he won't totally be happy.
He will be haunted by his fear of antifans.
When i was talking about JaeBum's case to my sis, she told me that if my bro or any of our family member was a Korean star, my parents or family would ask him to quickly comes back to us, not staying in Korea any longer. It might put his life in danger. I know that i might be very hyperbolic in here, but it's the reality.
What if your siblings are in JaeBum's shoes? Would you tell them to stay and fight the antifans/netizens?

If you are trying to say, "SNSD can overcome their antifans, why JaeBum can't?"
Ohmyemtothegee.. these two are different matters...
Why SNSD got antifans?
- Tiffany's bad behavior
- they are close with TVXQ, SuJu, SHINee, etc etc..

While JaeBum's is where he said that he doesn't like Koreans (or so i interpreted it as). I know that it was from 4 years ago. And i know that he was still a brat. and I DID FORGIVE HIM. read my previous post.

Anyway, Let's look back at some previous horrific cases happenned bcus of Netizens. Not only netizens, ANTIFANS. (some Netizens are part of antifans too..)

TVXQ YunHo. Remember the drink accident? A 17 year old antifan gave him the posion? She mixed a bottle of juice with super glue and give it to YunHo.
She pretends to be his fans and gave the juice directly to him (backstage?). Good thing is that YunHo quickly spit it out before he drank it down his throat.
Even so, he still being sent to the hospital. If YunHo actually drank it, the super glue will stuck on his throat and he won't be able to breath. Death is just minutes away from him.
But thank God, he's safe. I am sure this creates a trauma on him.




Comedian No HongChul. I don't know if you guys have heard of his stories before. He was attacked by a man (which i am sure is an antifans) who carried a knife, in front of his apartment.

The man waited for No to return home before assaulting him. No, who sustained a cut to his left ear, was taken to the hospital for treatment.

The motive behind the attack hasn’t been established. I’m betting the dude is just crazy; there are loads of people like this out there.

Fuck!

Hell No!

Why the fuck are u quitting?!

even though i am not your big fan, but i just still find this wrong.. i do enjoy watching u on TV, u did a good job and i know u love doing this job!

Is it just bcus of the antis?
or bcus u think that ur comment was so bad to the point that you have to quit??
What's with ur 4 years worth of training now?!?!?! I hope u'll come back..

Why are u going back to Seattle so soon for?
Is it bcus the staff has predicted that u might have get antis attack?

fuck those antis!

k, i'll say sth bad abt koreans now. i just think that 'korean antifans' are just a bit too much.
I thought the world is democratic (in some part), so i can voice out my opinion right? But if i do, i'll get bashed and everything..

The thing is..
ok..
if someone said sth bad about ur country.. i know some will be mad and some won't care.. but to the people who are mad:

are you really mad bcus u love ur country?
or u just do ur obligation as a resident of ur country?
or u just want to create sensation?

ok. this might creates war in internet. so i'll stop my opinions here.. ;)
i'm normally a peaceful person.. what.. lol


Maybe saying that 'korean is gay' really put ur career down.. but what's 2pm without JaeBum?
I mean.. really!


Ok, since i am the master of blaming someone, let me blame the fans who exposed those comments!!

See. there are 3 probabilities.. it might be the fans or the antis or the friend. I mean who else would spend their time reading through the whole comments till 4 years ago..? fans? possible.
antis? possible.
friends? possible.

Fans - i know you might say that fans are loyal and everything, it's impossible blablabla.. but heck no!
For example, if you found those comments and you know it's going to be a big hit around the world, wouldn't you be tempted to post that?
If i were that person and i did post it, i would feel extremnely bad.. i mean.. maybe i did gain popularity and my post became famous but i ruined someone's career and life..


Antis - i don't think i can post anything about this anymore.. i mean.. what can i say abt antis? it's already obvious of what to say abt them..?
But i really can't believe antis would go that far.. maybe not as far as what happenned to YunHo (the drink accident), but it is still bad.. oh well.. i guess i could only wait till these antis die and i'll laugh seeing them being tortured in hell.. ohh what a moment.. and of course i just want to see not actually see 'it' when i died.. =.='


friend - betrayal...? isn't this the same case as 'fans'? Nothing could've been more hurt than being betrayed by friends.. even tho i dont have those experiences.
If i were JaeBum.. I might say, "oh yeah.. i forgive them blablabla.." but when i found who's the person.. i will so beat them up to death.. like what happenned to my stolen wallet ;) (tho i havent found the culprit in my workplace yet..)


All i could hope is that JaeBum will just take this as a 'break', i'm hoping that he would come back.
All the best for you..

Yup yup..
a lot of u must've heard about his recent scandal aka his post in his myspace.
I forgave him not because i like him in 2pm (lol) but because i understand his feelings back then.
the comment was from 4 years ago. I repeat, 4 YEARS AGO!! Which fans that has no life would go through all his post in myspace till 4 years ago? i'm like wtf? This fans must be bored enough.
It was kinda JaeBum's fault as well for not making his myspace profile limited to some people.

His apology was very.. good? Is that how i'm supposed to put it?
I mean, there aren't many idols who would make such a long and pretty deep apology.
He gave out so many reasons which made sense and almost in every 3 sentence, he would put the word 'sorry'.
he did mentioned how when he came to Korea, he doesn't know a single word.
Whereas, when i came to Australia, i did learnsome of em, but still finding communicating with the locals here abit difficult.
When JaeBum came, everyone are Koreans, not many of them came of US or anything. I think Taecyeon and Nichkhun came like a year later? Maybe by that time, he still not close with JoKwon yet?
Meanwhile, me being in here, even though i can speak english.. it was kinda hard for me to talk to the locals.. =.=' they weren't nice enough to me.. hahaha
maybe i wasn't used to the western culture yet, i men like how they like to communicate etc etc.

JaeBum wasn't used to the culture yet too. I am sure of that.
See him in Mnet Hot Blood, when he came he was very cold yet quiet. Maybe he wasn't familiar with everyone there or upset??
I heard he was meant to debut as a solo, but being 'thrown' to boyband by JYP. But he doesn't regret it now..
Look at him.

At that time, i sensed the ABC vibe in him.. lol

Oh well, posting this here wouldn't help him anyway, hahaha.
I didn't intend to help him either, just voicing out my opinion about this.
But this matter, We won't be able to understand the Korean netizens decision because we aren't Korean. Maybe for Korean, talking bad about them is a BIG BIG BIG problem. For us maybe.. it's just.. mehh.. who cares?
You know how in Asian countries, idols are being pushed to be perfect?

Anyways anyways.. I'm just glad that JaeBum in the end found friends in Korea aka 2PM and he's happy with it.
Oh and i'll just sit down and always be the audience. I don't want to get my hands on all these..

The question is just as written on the title.
So WHO?

Talking about vacation means that we can gain some relaxment and fun, excitement, etc..



Here are roughly the list of famous male group idols in Korea:
( + my opinion)

1. TVXQ Who wouldn't want to spend holidays with them?
They are the most wanted boys!
Most people would sacrifice to be able to enjoy a vacation with them.
I would love to spend my holidays with them, BUT i think TVXQ is the type where you have to be close to them to be able to enjoy your vacation. I mean, yeah, some people would say,
"Oh, just being with them is a happiness for me. I'll enjoy my whole vacation."
Yeah.. Just by staring at them...?
I want a vacation where i can enjoy everything with whoever i am going with.
But if you were close with them, i guarantee 100% your holiday will be fun.

2. Big BangSpending holidays with them..... Yes...?
TaeYang and Gdragon seems a hard person to be approached.
Gdragon is always shy whenever he is off stage (kinda).
TaeYang seems quiet too, even though i know he actually talks alot. But he talks less with the people he just met.

SeungRi, due to his "look only at me"-byong (disease), i think he will always talk to you NON STOP. He is very talkactive too.
DaeSung, he'll by shy at the beginning. He might talk with you but not alot like he does in family outing. Remember the first couple of episodes, he was pretty quiet.

TOP. He's a dork, and i am sure you can approach him by talking often with him.. hahaha I don't think you will enjoy a vacation with them unless you are close with them though.. pretty much the same like TVXQ. They seemed to be more distant than TVXQ.

3. 2PM I really really want to spend my vacation with them.
I know that it would be fun spending times with them.
No matter if you just knew them or not, i don't think hey will leave you alone.
They will always drags you along everywhere and having fun. These boys are the best.
They can make you laugh non-stop, jokes around, pranking, etc.

4. Super JuniorI think if you have more member in a group it would be fun..? hahaha
Like usual, you have to be close to them first.
But i think the people that won't leave you alone is HeeChul, HanKyung, DongHae, and SungMin (The girls attention seekers).
I think as you get to know those 4 people, the rest aren't impossible.
You can see how they get along with Anya and Eva in Full House really fast.

5. SHINeeThese people.. Yes.
They are pretty much around my age, so it would be fine.
Key and MinHo are the same age as me, which makes Onew and JongHyun older than me, and TaeMin younger than me.

Spending time with them will be hot and tiring at the same time.
hot because of JongHyun. He treats girl really well, so i'm sure you will feel that your cheek are hot anytime you are near him.

tiring because of the rest of the boys. You know boys around my age, they still need to be taken care of. Maybe not really for this boys, but i'm sure they still DO.
I guess MinHo is the only one who would lend a helping hand. T
aeMin, you can order him around.. MWAHAHAHA
Onew.. not sure..
Key.. This guy is the last guy you want to deal with to make him help you. haha
he will do sth in his own way. But spending holidays with them would be great.

6. 2AMI kinda doubt going with these boys.
I don't really know them, but i guess i would.
Jokwon is amazingly crazy ad funny.
The rests, they are all influenced by Jokwon, so their level of craziness should be near to Jokwon.. haha
But i think i want to!

7. FT IslandNOPE.
I don't really know them.
Maybe fans who know them will want to.
Deciding on what i've seen so far, i don't want to.
These boys might look more outgoing and easygoing than TVXQ or Big Bang, but they might actually be cold.
They are the boys who are in their own world.. or so i think..

8. SS501Simple.
NO.
I don't know them AT ALL.
HyunJoong.. Since he is JaeJoong and TOP friend, and i've watch him in we got married, he is FUNNY.
The rests, i am sure they are fun as i've watched them in WGM, but i still don't want to spend it with them.. sorry..



Oh well, let's just go to the conclusion straight away. 1st place goes to....
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2PM!!
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2. SHINee
3. TVXQ
4. 2AM
5. FT island
6. Super Junior
7. ss501
8. Big Bang

Big Bang is the hardest to approach. I can't really express why, but my instinct say so.. haha

But it would be the best if 2PM and 2AM are combined. it would be the greatest vacation EVER!
Remember, this is just MY OPINION.

READ THIS

Yup, it's about hypnotising.
This is my opinion.

It was pretty scary how WooYoung said that it feels as if someone is holding his hand up like that.
But rather than scared, i feel suspicious about this.

When WooYoung kept on saying about someone holding his hand etc etc.. The hypnotizer approach him and hypnotized him to become mute, unable to speak.
WooYoung did try to say something, but it seems as if something stuck in his throat that made him unable to speak.
The thing is, from the action of the hypnotizer, it is as if WooYoung saying the right thing, and he's afraid if WooYoung kept on saying this, people will discover his true trick - using ghost. (who knows,,)
That is why he showed us this trick. Not only for the show, but for his benefit as well.
That's what it looks like to me.

Wheni told my friend about this, he said that the guy is not a 'hypnotizer' but a 'mentalist'.
Don't get it? search in wiki.

LOL!!!!!
It's funny how this little boy give WooYoung chips as a gift!!
If i were WooYoung i would remember this boy the best!! It's funny and cute at the same time!!


Kind of true.. hahaha

I would be one of those people on the building.. hahaha
This fellow reminds me of my friend.. because they kinda resemble (sorry!! I'm not being mean.. Well i am mean!)

Right.
If ur gonna ask me how was it.. i gotta say it was extremely good.
and if ur gonna ask me to choose b/n the 1st one and the 2nd one... i can't choose since i forgot what the 1st one was like.. hahahahaha

Transformer was really good.
They don't have many dialogues like narratives and most of them consisted of actions, and i love it so much. It was kind of violent tho~ Maybe for the technology folks.. haha
See how they stabbed and scratched and gouged and slashed and burn the robot's parts like the 'eyes', 'cheeks', etc..
If that actually humans, that would be gruesome..

Since i love action movies, i would give them 9.5/10
where does the 0.5 gone to? Mehh.. err.. umm.. well... they just don't deserve the 0.5 since it seemed to be very easy to defeat the enemy..
For some people it seemed hard, that's because they used tactics etc, thus it seemed to be hard.

"If you were in that situation! You will not think it's easy, u dumbass!!"
Yeah.. yeah.. yeah.. whatever.. it's not like i will *ever* (stress that please..) be in that kind of situation, u freak.
"You must be blind for not giving them the 0.5 they deserved!"
Chill man.. It's not like i am a professional critics or sth.. and my eyes are bad but not to the point that it is blind.
Any other complaints?


















Oh and before the movie, i had dinner with my HS friends at Oriental Spoon and then transformers! yey!! and we tried 삼겹살 (SamGyupSal) as well, it was good,, damn,,

Yes it was good, BUT (there's always a 'but') it was pretty disappointing.


















They didn't serve us the complete ingredients. In the picture, you can see pork belly, onions, tofu, and kimchi.
We do get kimchi, but that's a side dish..
All we get is the pork belly and the lettuce with sauce: chilli and the normal korean bbq sauce.

I thought we would get gochujang, but we got the chilli sauce. The chilli wasn't good either, it was sour.

Eating 삼겹살 reminds me of my 2nd affair who has a deep love towards 삼겹살 . haha













Oh and i saw that trailer 2012. Seline told me that it's predicted by the mayans, and i should search it in wikipedia. Guess what, i don't understand a single thing abt mayans since i skipped the whole page.. too many writtings.. do i look like the type who would read those chunks of letters??

K so, my point is that, if you believe that it is true, deep down in your heart, then it really gonna happen. Maybe this is a test from God. If the world really ends at 2012, gosh.. i have so many things i haven't done yet.. graduate uni, work, dream work, dream guy, husband, kids, etc, etc, etc...
I don't believe that.
We'll just see what's going to happen.
Talking abt this make me shiver alrdy.


1 word for today to 'that' person: Sorry. It's hard.